So it appears that my dog and cat have something in common now, besides being members of a rather strange household/zoo.
Yes, the cat that we have had for over a year is not a girl after all, confirmed by a long-overdue vet visit.
You should have heard the conversation between me and the staff.
Assistant: I think it could be a boy.
Me: Really? We have been calling it a "she" forever. Hence the pink collar.
Doctor: (feels cat) I don't see any [female parts]. (checks a few more times due to my disbelief) You have a neutered male. (checks more because I'm still looking at him strangely) Unless it's a hermaphrodite.
So I guess that's that. Hope everyone will still shower him with the same affection with his feminine-like cat behavior. And HE is healthy, young, updated on shots, and apparently needs a teeth cleaning soon, which is a procedure in itself costing not too far off from the dog's neutering last March.
These boys are sending me to the poor house.